Hosting a dinner party can be a daunting task. There are many things to consider such as icebreaker topics, meal selection to accommodate different dietary restrictions, and the guest list. It is important to not only focus on the meal preparation but also upon how it will be served to each guest. A properly set table lets each guest know how special they are to you. When you set the table, you set the tone for the entire meal.

The Space

When you are hosting or have scouted a location, consider the decor and theme of the overall space. Although you do not necessarily need to completely match your surroundings, it is good to keep in mind the style and beware of any clashes. For instance, pairing sleek and modern china with a boho-inspired room may distract the guests and detract from the quality of the meal. However, it is also important not to overmatch. Overmatching with the room will divert attention away from the table. Instead, look for the accent color or pick a color complement of the room and use this color as your overall theme.

To Tablecloth or Not to Tablecloth

Tablecloths add a soft intimacy to the occasion that can complement the space immensely. Choosing one that fits your desired color palette and theme will tie the rest of the table together. However, one can decide not to use a tablecloth if the event is less formal or located in a more minimalist setting.

The Centerpiece

Centerpieces come in all shapes and sizes. Depending on the occasion, you can use fruit, glassware, flowers, pinecones, stuffed animals, cupcakes, or anything you can think of. The possibilities are endless and this is a time to really get creative. The important thing is to remember your color scheme and avoid anything too tall that would make it difficult for guests to easily see and speak with one another.

Plates and glassware

Consider your color palette and theme when choosing which dishes to use. When in doubt, pick the standard white dishes and nice glasses. You can always dress up this minimalist aesthetic by overlaying a colored napkin or using an intricate placemat.

Names and messages

If you are inviting many guests for a mixer, place a name tag next to each plate along with a message for suggestion topics. This will signal to each guest to break the ice with one another and make new friends. (Hint: breaking out a bottle of bubbly helps ease the tension as well!)